How to Stop Believing Lies About Yourself

You know you’re not worthless, stupid, or lazy but you don’t know how to stop believing the lies about yourself. You know there is good in you, but you haven’t learned how to hold on to the truth. You want to feel and think better about who you are, but you just don’t know how. […]

How to Stop Believing Lies About Yourself

What to Do After Her Mothers Death

What to Do After Her Mom Dies

A reader asked for tips on how to help a woman cope with her mother’s death. There isn’t one right thing to say or do after a mom dies, but there are many little ways to show your love and support. I wrote Heartwarming Sympathy Gifts for Someone Whose Mom Died a couple years ago, […]


When You Feel Guilty for Moving On

You know you need to move on with your life, but you feel guilty. You may even want to move on because you know it’s time, but you don’t know how. What does “moving on” even mean? How do you bring the good parts of the past – the lessons, growth and insights – into […]

When You Feel Guilty for Moving On

How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men

How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men

You want to be in a good relationship with the right man, yet you keep attracting men who aren’t available. Maybe you even feel like you’re dating the same man over and over! Different name, same problems. Perhaps he’s emotionally unavailable, financially bankrupt, or even married to another woman. “Why do I keep attracting men […]


When You’re Sad Because You Never Married

If you feel sad because you never married, guess what? You’re not alone, even though you feel lonely. We were made for companionship. God created us to spend life in pairs, with partners. He created us to love and be loved in return. And this makes it worse, doesn’t it? Why on earth – if […]

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When You Feel Unloved and Unwanted

What to Do When You Feel Unloved and Unwanted

Even if you’re married or in a good relationship, you’ll still struggle with feelings of being unloved and unwanted. It’s normal, because even the best man in the world can’t fill the emptiness – and neither can marriage, children, a good career, or money. That’s the bad news. But wait, there’s good news! I have […]


An Easy Way to Start Mending Your Broken Heart 

When a relationship ends, some people quickly bounce back. Others take longer, and still others never pick up the pieces of their broken hearts. Feeling stuck and lonely is no way to live – or to Blossom into who you were created to be! Why do some people heal faster than others? Maybe they know […]

An Easy Way to Start Mending Your Broken Heart 

How to Accept the End of a Relationship

Accepting the End of a Relationship You Want to Keep

How do you accept a breakup that blindsided you? Even if you suspected your relationship was ending, you wanted to keep it alive. You were holding on with hope and faith. Now that it’s over, you’re having trouble moving on. Learning how to accept the end of a relationship – especially one you wanted to […]


Tips for Dealing With a Secret Unhealthy Relationship

You’re involved with the wrong guy: a boss, a married man, a teacher or coach at school, or your friend’s boyfriend. You can’t talk about him with your friends or family. These tips for dealing with secret unhealthy relationships will help you break free. Are you thinking about ending this relationship? Read How to End […]

How to Deal With a Secret Unhealthy Relationship

How to Prepare Your Heart to Fall in Love Again

How to Prepare Your Heart to Fall in Love Again

Healing your heart after a breakup or death is the first stage of moving on. The second stage is preparing your heart for a new relationship. How do you take the risk of falling in love again after being hurt in the past? Two She Blossoms readers recently asked for help getting healthy. They want […]