Harmful Patterns

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When You Feel Crumpled and Worn – Blossom Tip 66

Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value in God’s eyes.

Free Book Give-Away for She Blossoms Readers – Blossom Tip 64

To win a free print copy of my new book Growing Forward When You Can’t Go Back, tell me something about yourself in the comments section below. You might share how you found my She Blossoms blogs, what your favorite color is, what you ate for breakfast, or if you’re an introvert or an extrovert.

What to Do While You’re Waiting – Blossom Tip 57

What’s the longest you’ve waited for something? Maybe it was an hour for a bus, or a week for test results. Maybe it was a month for a job offer, or a year for a husband. Maybe it was a decade for a loved one to return, or a lifetime for a prayer to be answered. Maybe you’re still waiting. Maybe […]

5 Keys to Being Happy When You’re Alone

These five “Blossom Tips” for being happy when you’re alone will help you find the sweet spot. You’ve been lonely and searching for happiness for long enough! It’s time to learn how to be happy in the garden you’re planted in and flourish into the woman God created you to be. “I have been alone for almost five years and […]

When You Miss Him Like Crazy

Whether you’re coping with a breakup or a long distance relationship, sometimes all you can think is “I miss him like crazy.” You’re overwhelmed with loneliness, perhaps missing him so much you can barely get off the floor. Here’s how She Blossoms reader is dealing with her boyfriend’s absence: “My boyfriend and I started living together recently,” says Rozie on […]

5 Ways to Respond When Your Boyfriend Stops Texting You

At the beginning of your relationship, your boyfriend texted all the time. But gradually – or suddenly – he started texting you less. Did your boyfriend lose interest? Why isn’t he sending as many text messages? And, what should you do? Here’s what one frustrated girlfriend says: “My boyfriend used to text me and call me everyday before he had me,” […]

How to Heal Your Heart After Your Marriage Falls Apart

“My marriage fell apart and I’m scared my heart will never heal,” says a She Blossoms reader. She asked for help coping after her husband left her, and for ideas on how to trust God for healing her broken heart. She knows God has a plan for her…but what is it? How will she find it? When will His will […]