troubled marriages

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How to Live With a Husband You Wish You Never Married

You thought you knew the man you married, but you didn’t find out who your husband really was until after the wedding. How do you live with – and love – a husband you wish you never married? These 101 quick tips will help you fall in love with your husband, fix your marriage, and find true joy and happiness […]

How to Heal Your Heart After Your Marriage Falls Apart

“My marriage fell apart and I’m scared my heart will never heal,” says a She Blossoms reader. She asked for help coping after her husband left her, and for ideas on how to trust God for healing her broken heart. She knows God has a plan for her…but what is it? How will she find it? When will His will […]

How to Protect Yourself From Being Used in a Relationship

Sometimes it’s hard to know if you’re being kind and loving in a relationship, or if a man is using you. How do you protect yourself from being walked all over — especially when you’re in love? Love is blind; you can’t see as clearly and you’re less able to make rational, level-headed decisions. That’s what I’m here for! To […]

How to Forgive Your Husband for Cheating While He Was Alive

After her husband died, Kate found out her husband was having an affair. How do you cope with your husband’s death — and forgive him for cheating on you while he was alive? Here’s my reader’s comment: “Nobody has addressed being married to husband who died, then finding out he cheated with a coworker for the entire marriage, or most […]

5 Signs It’s Time to Give Up Hope for Your Relationship

Should you stop hoping in your relationship? These signs it’s time to give up hope that your relationship will change are based on an excellent book by Dr Henry Cloud. I also describe the difference between wishful thinking and healthy reasons to hope for change. You believe in your relationship…but are you hoping for a miracle? First, learn the difference […]

Healing From an Affair in a Christian Marriage

Not even a Christian marriage is safe from infidelity, affairs, and cheating spouses. A pastor’s wife asked for help healing from an affair; her experience inspired me to write this article. “I must be doing something wrong, for my pain seems to get worse by the day,” says Samantha on How to Heal Your Heart After Your Marriage Falls Apart. […]