Your mother doesn’t have to change – or ask for forgiveness – in order for you to be happy. Forgiving your mom for hurting you isn’t a gift for her…it’s for you. With forgiveness comes healing, freedom, and peace. Learning how to forgive your mother… Read More »When You Can’t Forgive Your Mom – But You Want to
How do you know if you’re a toxic girlfriend? These 12 signs will help you see the truth about yourself. Unfortunately, you have to rely on your own honest, ruthless self-awareness to know just how toxic you are! Other people aren’t always willing or able… Read More »How to Stop Being a Toxic Girlfriend
How do you break up with a disabled boyfriend? You don’t want to hurt him – just like you wouldn’t want to hurt a man who is able-bodied. These tips are inspired by a reader whose boyfriend is in a wheelchair. She loves him, but… Read More »How Do You Break Up With a Guy Who Has a Disability?
How do you cope with an “on again off again” love relationship that seems more off than on? Even more important: how do you find peace, stability and joy in a relationship that is filled with uncertainty and confusion?
These 10 ways to help a husband who drinks too much are partly based on my work in a residential recovery program with men who are alcoholics and drug addicts. I was also inspired to write this article by a reader, who is searching for ways to cope with her alcoholic husband.
Your relationship isn’t working out, but you’re worried about what your boyfriend might do if you break up with him. Breaking up is always hard – but it’s even worse when you feel anxious or scared of how your boyfriend will respond.
Maybe you want to move in with your boyfriend, or borrow his dog for a jog. Maybe you want to ask your boyfriend to marry you, or to move his junk out of your apartment. How do you ask your boyfriend for what you want? It’s not easy to express your desires, say what you need, or ask for help…especially to a guy you love and want to be loved by.
You love your boyfriend and you think (or know!) he loves you back…but he stopped making an effort in your relationship. You’re starting to wonder about your boyfriend’s feelings for you. Maybe you’re even worried that he no longer loves you the way he used to.