emotional affairs

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Why Your Boyfriend Cheated: A Relationship Style That Leads to Affairs

Learning about this type of relationship style will help you answer one of the most difficult questions of your life: “Why did my boyfriend cheat on me?” Your relationship didn’t cause your boyfriend to cheat — he chose to have an affair. But, your relationship style may have created an environment that set the stage for your boyfriend’s cheating. “After […]

The Problem With Secret Keeping – Blossom Tip 81

Remember when keeping secrets was something to admire? When you were a kid, you learned that keeping secrets—especially about birthdays, school events, surprise parties and plans—was good. As an adult, keeping secrets can backfire. Especially if your secrets are dark, harmful, and holding you back.

Healing From an Affair in a Christian Marriage

Not even a Christian marriage is safe from infidelity, affairs, and cheating spouses. A pastor’s wife asked for help healing from an affair; her experience inspired me to write this article. “I must be doing something wrong, for my pain seems to get worse by the day,” says Samantha on How to Heal Your Heart After Your Marriage Falls Apart. […]

Is the Affair Really Over? 5 Signs He Will Cheat on You Again

He swears the affair is over, but how do you know if he’ll cheat on you again? Here’s how to see beyond what your boyfriend or husband is really saying – and how to trust that still small voice inside you. “It’s been six months since I found out my husband was cheating with his assistant,” says Miriam on 5 […]

Rebuilding Trust in a Relationship After a Secret Love Affair 

The end of a secret love affair is the beginning of a new stage of life! Whether you’re rebuilding trust in a relationship or starting fresh, these tips will help you recover after the end of the affair. “I found the strength I needed to end a secret affair,” says Mary on How to Break Up With a Married Man and […]

Why You Need to Talk About Your Husband’s Affair – and Who to Tell

Talking about your husband’s affair will help you recover and heal. Here’s how to find someone to talk to – and how to cope with your feelings of shame and embarrassment that your husband was unfaithful. “I have been married for 10 years, my husband and I have two children,” says Carly on How to Forgive Your Husband After an […]

Is He Cheating? How to Be Your Own Private Investigator

You don’t need to hire a private investigator to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you! Here are 12 signs he’s involved with another woman. It’s time to stop asking “Is my boyfriend cheating?” and start preparing for the truth. Why do you want to know if he’s having an affair? Because “you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge,” […]