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Why You Need to Talk About Your Husband’s Affair – and Who to Tell

Talking about your husband’s affair will help you recover and heal. Here’s how to find someone to talk to – and how to cope with your feelings of shame and embarrassment that your husband was unfaithful. “I have been married for 10 years, my husband and I have two children,” […]

Who to Talk About Your Husband’s Affair

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Should You Stay Together for the Children? What You Need to Know

These insights and information will help you decide if you should stay together for the children. The effects of divorce on kids can be serious and long-lasting – but so can the impact of growing up in a home with parents who are unhealthy, disconnected, or abusive. Meet the reader who inspired me to […]


How to Know if Your “Lover’s Spats” Are Destroying Your Relationship

Some relationship conflict – such as an occasional “lover’s spat” – is normal and even healthy for couples. But, fighting can start to affect how you feel about each other and even destroy your relationship. The following signs that a couple’s fights are unhealthy and destructive are inspired by a reader. “My boyfriend […]

Lover’s Spats Are Destroying Relationship

Tips for Dealing With Your Husband's Past, Secrets, and Lies

6 Ways to Deal With Your Husband’s Past Secrets

When you learn how to deal with your husband’s past secrets and old relationships, you hold the key to freedom and joy – not to mention a happy marriage! These tips are inspired by two readers who are coping with their partners’ past lives and decisions; they’ll help you accept […]


How to Stop Past Mistakes From Ruining Your Relationship

Do you regret something you did when you were young and foolish? Here’s how to stop your past mistakes from destroying your relationship or ruining your life. You CAN let go and be free – and you can heal your relationship with others and yourself. But, you will have to do a […]

How to Stop Past Mistakes From Ruining Relationships Destroying Life

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How to Decide if You Should Reconcile With Your Husband

Here’s what you need to know about getting back together after a separation. Reconciliation is common for many couples who have separated or divorced, but is it a good idea for you? “My husband is desperately trying to reconcile our marriage after we separated,” said Lynda on Emotional Disconnection in Marriage. […]


5 Signs You Can Trust Your Boyfriend After He Cheated

Forgiving your boyfriend’s affair is easier if you can rebuild your trust in your relationship. Here are five signs you can trust your boyfriend after he cheated on you, plus tips on how to forgive. These tips are inspired by a reader’s question about her boyfriend’s affair with his closest […]

Signs You Can Trust Your Boyfriend After He Cheated

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7 Ways to Know If Your Relationship is Worth Fighting For

Have you reached the tipping point in your relationship? Here’s how to know if your relationship is worth fighting for, or if you should throw in the towel and start another round with someone new. “I know that love changes and there are different phases of love,” says Toni on How […]


How to Apologize and Make Amends When You Were Wrong

Saying, “I was wrong, and I’m sorry I hurt you,” can be surprisingly difficult! These tips will help you apologize and make amends after hurting someone you care about.  The relief and freedom you’ll feel after saying you’re sorry is worth the painful moment of the apology. You’ll need to be […]

How to Apologize and Make Amends When You Were Wrong