Rebuilding


Accepting the End of a Relationship You Want to Keep   Recently updated !

How do you accept a breakup that blindsided you? Even if you suspected your relationship was ending, you wanted to keep it alive. You were holding on with hope and faith. Now that it’s over, you’re having trouble moving on. Learning how to accept the end of a relationship – especially one you wanted to […]

How to Accept the End of a Relationship

5 Ways to Be Happily Alone When a Relationship Ends

How to Be Happy Alone After Your Relationship Ends   Recently updated !

Imagine being happier after a breakup – or even a divorce – than you were before! It may sound unbelievable, but it is possible. These five tips on how to be alone and happy after your relationship ends will give you a strong foundation of peace, joy, and freedom. I wrote this article for a […]


How to Heal After Losing the Only Man You Ever Loved     Recently updated !

Moving on after you lose the only man you’ve ever loved may be the hardest thing you ever do…and the most important. These tips for healing a broken heart are intended for relationship and marriage breakups, but they apply to different types of losses as well. You’re not alone – no matter how you lot […]

How to Heal After Losing the Only Man You Ever Loved

How to Get Over an Ex-Boyfriend You See Everyday

How to Get Over an Ex-Boyfriend You See at Work Everyday   Recently updated !

Work breakups are painful because seeing him every day makes it more difficult to forget and move on. Seeing your ex-boyfriend at work every day also reopens old wounds and stirs up painful thoughts and emotions. How do you get over an ex you work with? Most breakup articles — mine included — encourage women to […]


Celebrating a Birthday After Your Relationship Falls Apart   Recently updated !

You may not be celebrating a happy birthday this year, but my tips for blossoming after a breakup will help! Whether your relationship recently ended or fell apart years ago, your birthday won’t be as bright or cheerful as it was when you were together…but it can still be good. Your ex-boyfriend or ex-husband may […]

how to stop negative thinking after a breakup

Overcoming Setbacks to Healing a Broken Heart

How to Overcome Setbacks to Healing a Broken Heart    Recently updated !

Every loss, breakup, and healing process involves discouraging and sometimes painful setbacks. Healing your broken heart after a breakup or loss is no different. But take heart, for you are growing forward. “Grief is not a mountain that you climb, go over the top, and then climb back down the other side so that you’re […]


How to Stop Feeling Sorry for Yourself After He Leaves   Recently updated !

Feeling sorry for yourself when a relationship ends – especially after your boyfriend or husband leaves you – is a normal response. But who wants to struggle with self-pity for months or even years after a breakup? Certainly not you! These ideas on how to stop feeling sorry for yourself will help you pick up the […]

How to Stop Feeling Sorry for Yourself After He Leaves

What to Do When You Feel Unloved and Unwanted

When You Want to Believe He Can’t Live Without You   Recently updated !

Deep down you know your heart will eventually heal, but right now you feel like you’ll die without him. Here’s what to do when all you want is to believe he loves you so much that he can’t live without you — whether he was your boyfriend for a year, your husband for a decade, […]


How to Trust God After a Heartbreaking Loss   Recently updated !

When you’re dealing with death, divorce or a difficult time, the hardest thing is to keep trusting in God — and in His plan for your life. A heartbreaking loss feels like it ruined your life. It can take years to truly recover and heal, and even longer to start trusting God again. You are […]

How to Trust God After a Heartbreaking Loss

Recreating Yourself When a Relationship Ends

How to Recreate Yourself After a Relationship Ends   Recently updated !

The end of a relationship is never easy – even when you expected to break up. It hurts to say goodbye; it takes time to recreate yourself and move forward. But, all endings bring new beginnings. If you choose, a breakup can help you blossom into who God created you to be. Recreating yourself after a […]