Letting Go


She Blossoms Growing Forward When You Can’t Go Back

Growing Forward in a New Season – Blossom Tip 67

What new season is unfolding in your life? Maybe you’re walking into something unknown — a fresh semester at school, different routine at work, unfamiliar rhythm at home — and you don’t know what to expect. Maybe you’re grieving a loss, saying goodbye to an old friend, letting go of unaccomplished goals.


How to Break Free From a Toxic Ex Relationship

These practical, effective tips for finding freedom after a breakup will help you get over an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband. Breaking free – especially from a toxic ex relationship that is destroying your self-identity – doesn’t have to take months or years.

How to Break Free From a Toxic Ex

She Blossoms Secret to Keeping Your Hope Alive Blossom Tip 63

The Secret to Keeping Your Hope Alive – Blossom Tip 63

Before we talk about nourishing hope and faith — which can be hard in the holiday season — I have a Public Service Announcement about our free “She Blossoms” calendar. 🙂 A new and improved version of the calendar is coming, so don’t print your copy yet! An eagle-eyed reader […]


Starting Over When Life Knocks You Down – Blossom Tip 61

Have you ever been in a car accident? I can only imagine how painful it must be! I accidentally bumped into a parked car once — while walking — and was shocked at how much that little tap hurt. Life knocks us down in all sorts of ways, on all […]

She Blossoms Starting Over When Life Knocks You Down BlossomTip 61

What to Remember When You’re Left Behind – Blossom Tip 60

What to Remember When You’re Left Behind – Blossom Tip 60

Did you know elephants grieve when one of their herd dies? Scientists say it’s because they live for approximately 70 years and develop strong bonds. Long, close relationships make death difficult. Yesterday I saw death. And I discovered that elephants aren’t the only animals who grieve. I’m back from my […]


How to Stop Feeling Unlovable After a Breakup

Feeling unlovable, unworthy, and unwanted is normal after a breakup. But just because it’s normal doesn’t mean it’s inevitable! Here’s how to stop feeling unlovable after a breakup and start feeling happy again. I thought nobody could love me when my boyfriend broke up with me. I felt alone and […]

How to Stop Feeling Unlovable After a Breakup

Ways to Stop Negative Thinking After a Breakup

7 Easy Ways to Stop Negative Thinking After a Breakup

Sometimes you are your own worst enemy after a breakup – such as when you allow negative thoughts to control your mood and mind. These tips on how to stop negative thinking will help you regain control of your life. After breaking up, you can feel better about yourself than you […]


What to Do After Your Girlfriend’s or Wife’s Mom Dies

A reader asked for tips on how to help his girlfriend cope with her mother’s death. There isn’t one right thing to say or do after a mom dies, but there are many little ways to show your love and support. I wrote Heartwarming Sympathy Gifts for Someone Whose Mom […]

What to Do After Her Mothers Death