Unhealthy Attachments


10 Reasons You Can’t Face the Truth About Your Relationship

Accepting the truth about someone you love is hard, even if you know he isn’t good for you. These 10 reasons you can’t face the truth about your relationship will help you see him — and yourself — in a different light. Sometimes we know the truth deep down, but we don’t want to admit […]

Reasons You Aren’t Facing the Truth About Your Relationship

Reasons You’re Stuck in an Unhealthy Relationship

6 Reasons You’re Stuck in an Unhealthy Relationship

When you figure out why you get stuck in unhealthy relationships, you move one step closer to freedom, peace, and joy! These reasons women feel trapped in bad or unhappy relationships will help you see yourself – and your partner – in a different light. Sometimes you can be painfully aware of all the signs […]


How to Stop a Love-Hate Relationship From Ruining Your Life 

The helplessness and frustration of loving someone you hate (or who hates you) can ruin your life – unless you learn how to stop the relationship from overpowering you. A reader inspired me to write this article; she is feeling trapped and helpless in a love-hate relationship. While you’re reading my tips on how to […]

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5 Signs You Should Give Up Hope in Your Relationship

Is it time to give up? Here’s how to know when you should stop hoping a relationship will change, plus the difference between wishful thinking versus healthy reasons to keep hoping for change. You believe in your relationship…but are you hoping for a miracle? First, here’s the difference between wishful and hoping. Then, find strength […]


Getting Over an Affair – Help and Hope for Pastors’ Wives

Yes, you can get over his affair – even when you want to hide with the covers pulled over your head! As a pastor’s wife, you need all the help and hope you can get to keep moving forward even when you want to lie down and give up. These ideas on how to recover […]

Hope and Healing for Pastors Wives Getting Over the Affair

8 Signs He Stopped Loving You

Are you picking up signals that your boyfriend’s (or husband’s) feelings have changed? These eight signs he doesn’t love you will show you how he really feels. You are worthy of being loved…and you need to know if his feelings have changed so you can start learning how to cope with whatever unfolds in your life. […]

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What to Do When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Make Time for You

What to Do When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Have Time for You

If you feel neglected and lonely because your boyfriend doesn’t spend time with you, it’s time to push the pause button. Here’s what to do when your boyfriend doesn’t make time for you or your relationship. You don’t have to sit back and wait for him. You have more power than you think! I was […]


Is the Affair Really Over? 5 Signs He Will Cheat on You Again

He swears the affair is over, but how do you know if he’ll cheat on you again? Here’s how to see beyond what your boyfriend or husband is really saying – and how to trust that still small voice inside you. “It’s been six months since I found out my husband was cheating with his […]

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How to Get Away From an Abusive Husband married 20 years

How to Get Away From an Abusive Husband After 20 Years of Marriage

There are no “quick tips” for leaving an abusive husband after 20 years of marriage. But there is good news: you’re still here, and there is hope! You are not alone. I was inspired to write this article by a strong, brave woman who is ready to talk about the abuse her husband has been […]