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When You Don’t Feel Good Enough for Your Husband

Learning how to deal with feelings of low self-worth and insecurity in your marriage will change everything! Here’s what to do when you feel like you’re not good enough for your husband – I was inspired to write this article for a wife who was brave enough to share how her husband makes her feel. This is part of her story… […]

When You Don't Feel Good Enough for Your Husband

How to Survive Life With an Angry Man

7 Ways to Survive Life With an Angry Man – When You Can’t Leave

Are you living with a man who lets his anger control him (and you)? These 7 tips on how to survive life with an angry husband or boyfriend will help you cope – especially if you can’t leave your relationship or home. I’ve written hundreds of articles on recognizing when your relationship can’t be saved, breaking up, surviving divorce, and rebuilding […]


10 Ways to Stop Being a Needy Girlfriend and Feel Confident Again

These tips on how to love your boyfriend without anxiety or fear can save your relationship, for you will learn how to stop being a needy girlfriend. I was inspired to write this article for a reader who asked for help with her anxious attachment style…but don’t let the words “anxious attachment style” scare you; they have the power to teach you how to […]

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How to End Your Toxic Love Affair Now – Before It’s Too Late

Learn what a toxic love affair is, and how to end a relationship that is destroying your self-esteem and making your life miserable. A reader just asked for help ending a love affair that is toxic for both her and her boyfriend, and the timing couldn’t be better! I’m reading Necessary Endings by Dr Henry Cloud; this book can help you […]


Is He Cheating? How to Be Your Own Private Investigator

You don’t need to hire a private investigator to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you! Here are 12 signs he’s involved with another woman. It’s time to stop asking “Is my boyfriend cheating?” and start preparing for the truth. Why do you want to know if he’s having an affair? Because “you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge,” […]

Is He Cheating? How to Be Your Own Private Investigator

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Is Your Marriage Over? 6 Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore

How do you know if your marriage is over? These six signs of the end of a relationship will help you see yourself – and your spouse – more clearly. You may not be headed for divorce court, so take heart! Even the healthiest relationships hit rock bottom sometimes. I was inspired to write this article by a reader’s comment. “My husband and […]


9 Ways to Know if Your Husband is Lying About Cheating

If you think your husband is cheating, you’re picking up on important subconscious clues. Here are 5 signs your husband is cheating, plus 4 ways to know if he’s lying to you about the affair. These tips are from Gary Neuman, author of The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It. On the Dr Oz show, this […]

How to Know if Your Husband is Lying About Cheating