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When You’re Sad Because You Never Married

If you feel sad because you never married, guess what? You’re normal and healthy. We were made for companionship. God created us to spend life in pairs, with partners. He created us to love and be loved in return. And this makes it worse! Why on earth – if God created you to love and […]

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How to Prepare Your Heart to Fall in Love Again

How to Prepare Your Heart to Fall in Love Again

Healing your heart after a breakup or death is the first stage of moving on. The second stage is preparing your heart for a new relationship. How do you take the risk of falling in love again after being hurt in the past? Two She Blossoms readers recently asked for help getting healthy. They want […]


5 Ways to Stop Wanting Him Back

The breakup had to happen, yet it breaks your heart. You can’t stop wanting him back! These tips will help you move forward without your ex-boyfriend or ex-husband, and inspire you to walk into a new season of life. After a breakup or divorce, you can’t just merrily move on with your life. Unfortunately, it […]

How to Stop Wanting Him Back After a Breakup

Loving Emotionally Unavailable Man

How to Love an Emotionally Unavailable Man 

You’re in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man – and you love him too much to leave. You are not alone, even if he doesn’t show his emotions.  In this article, you’ll find 10 tips on how to love a man who isn’t available emotionally. Here’s what a wife wrote on one of my articles […]


5 Ways to Respond When Your Boyfriend Stops Texting You

At the beginning of your relationship, your boyfriend texted all the time. But gradually – or suddenly! – he started texting you less. Did your boyfriend lose interest? Why isn’t he sending as many text messages? And, what should you do? Here’s what one frustrated girlfriend says: “My boyfriend used to text me and call me […]

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How to Know if God Has Blessed Your Relationship

5 Signs of God’s Blessing on Your Relationship

One of the best ways to see signs of God’s blessing on your relationship is to look at a marriage that wasn’t blessed by God. Step away from your emotions; take hold of the wisdom of the Holy Spirit. Put your desperate (and normal!) yearnings for love aside; learn from the word of God. In […]


How to Heal Your Heart After Your Marriage Falls Apart

“My marriage fell apart and I’m scared my heart will never heal,” says a “She Blossoms” reader. She asked for help coping after her husband left her, and for ideas on how to trust God for healing her broken heart. She knows God has a plan for her…but what is it? How will she find […]

5 Ways to Heal Your Heart After a Marriage Falls Apart

How to Heal After Losing the Only Man You Ever Loved

5 Ideas for Healing After Losing the Only Man You Ever Loved  

Moving on after you lose the only man you’ve ever loved may be the hardest thing you ever do…and the most important. These tips for healing a broken heart are intended for relationship and marriage breakups, but they apply to different types of losses as well. You’re not alone – no matter how you lot […]


How to Protect Yourself From Being Used in a Relationship

Sometimes it’s hard to know if you’re being kind and loving in a relationship, or if a man is using you. How do you protect yourself from being walked all over — especially when you’re in love? Love is blind; you can’t see as clearly and you’re less able to make rational, level-headed decisions. That’s […]

How to Protect Yourself From Being Used in a Relationship

How to Forgive Your Husband for Cheating While He Was Alive

How to Forgive Your Husband for Cheating While He Was Alive

After her husband died, Kate found out her husband was having an affair. How do you cope with your husband’s death — and forgive him for cheating on you while he was alive? Here’s my reader’s comment: “Nobody has addressed being married to husband who died, then finding out he cheated with a coworker for […]