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5 Ways to Stop Obsessing About Him

Obsessive love is powerful – and destructive – because your heart is captivated. When you can’t stop thinking about him, your life is ruled by an impossible relationship. That’s the bad news. But wait – there’s good news! You CAN stop the destructive train wreck of obsessive love, and you can get emotionally and spiritually healthy […]

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How to Get Over the One Who Got Away

How to Get Over the One That Got Away

The truth? You’ll never fully get over “the one that got away.” The consolation? You can learn how to live in peace, acceptance, and even joy — even without someone you thought would always be part of your life. Sometimes we think we’re living in the present, but we’re actually surrounded by ghosts of the past. […]


What to Do When Your Ex Boyfriend Unfriends You on Facebook

When your ex boyfriend unfollows or unfriends you on Facebook, you feel the pain of breaking up all over again. These tips on coping when your ex unfriends or unfollows you on social media will help rebuild your self-confidence and heal from the heartache of a breakup. “Your feelings will pass and life after the […]

How to Cope When Your Ex Unfriends You on Facebook

How to Let Go of a Past Relationship

How to Let Go of a Past Relationship

The person you loved – and lost – will always be tucked away in your heart. These tips for letting go of a past relationship will help you remember the best of your love while you heal and move forward. “I wish I’d read your ideas for letting go of a first love when I […]


How to Fill the Emptiness When You Miss Your Ex

The emptiness that fills your heart and soul when you miss your ex boyfriend or husband can feel overwhelming. You are not alone; I wrote this article for a reader who says, “I miss my ex more than I ever believed possible.” The good news is you can find a million ideas on how to […]

How to Fill the Emptiness When You Miss Your Ex

How to Get Through a Breakup When You’re Still in Love

How to Get Through a Breakup When You’re Still in Love

Breaking up was the right thing to do, but your heart aches. Here’s how to get through a breakup when you’re still in love with him, you miss him, and you wish your relationship could have turned out differently… “I broke up with my boyfriend of six years, and I know it was the right […]


How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex and Get On With Your Life

These seven simple, effective tips on how to stop thinking about your ex-husband or ex-boyfriend will help you overcome obsessive thoughts. Take heart, for you will move on with your life. You can stop ruminating about the past – and you can rebuild your life, renew your heart, and restore your joy! The most important thing […]

How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex Boyfriend ExHusband

How to Get Revenge on My Ex Boyfriend

How to Get Revenge on Your Ex – Without Losing Your Soul

Your ex boyfriend has hurt you a thousand ways, and all you can think about is how to get revenge. These five tips for getting revenge on your ex are inspired by the parable of a princess warrior. She got even with those who hurt her, but she paid a huge price. “Your tips on how to […]


How to Convince Someone to Give You a Second Chance

The bad news is that you broke up, but the good news is that many breakups aren’t permanent. Here are seven tips that will help you convince someone to give you a second chance. These tips for reconciling with your ex are inspired by a reader’s email.  “I would do anything to get her back, anything,” says […]

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