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4 Ways to Calm the Anxiety of Meeting Your Ex and His New Partner

What do you say to your ex-husband or ex-boyfriend’s new partner when you meet for the first time? How do you cope with your feelings of anxiety, anger and insecurity? Meeting your ex’s new girlfriend — or his new wife — won’t be the easiest moment of your life…but it may not be as painful […]

How to Calm the Anxiety of Meeting Your Ex New Partner

5 Ways to Heal Your Heart After a Marriage Falls Apart

How to Heal Your Heart After Your Marriage Falls Apart

“My marriage fell apart and I’m scared my heart will never heal,” says a “She Blossoms” reader. She asked for help coping after her husband left her, and for ideas on how to trust God for healing her broken heart. She knows God has a plan for her…but what is it? How will she find […]


5 Ideas for Healing After Losing the Only Man You Ever Loved  

Moving on after you lose the only man you’ve ever loved may be the hardest thing you ever do…and the most important. These tips for healing a broken heart are intended for relationship and marriage breakups, but they apply to different types of losses as well. You’re not alone – no matter how you lot […]

How to Heal After Losing the Only Man You Ever Loved

How to Get Over an Ex-Boyfriend You See Everyday

How to Get Over an Ex-Boyfriend You See at Work Everyday

How do you get over an ex-boyfriend you work with? Work breakups are painful because seeing him doesn’t just make it harder to forget and move on, it reopens old wounds and stirs up painful thoughts and emotions. Most breakup articles — mine included — encourage women to get a new job after breaking up […]


5 Reasons to Take Your “Couples Vacation” After an Unexpected Breakup 

You planned a trip as a couple, but your relationship suddenly ended. The breakup not only broke your heart, it ruined your vacation plans! Should you cancel your trip, or take the vacation with a friend or family member? Before we jump into my reasons why you should take your planned vacation — especially after […]

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How to Have a Happy Birthday After a Breakup

How to Have a Happy Birthday After Your Relationship Falls Apart

You may not be celebrating a happy birthday this year, but my tips for blossoming after a breakup will help. Whether your relationship recently ended or fell apart years ago, your birthday won’t be as bright or cheerful as it was when you were together…but it can still be good. Your ex-boyfriend or ex-husband may […]


3 Ways to Stop Feeling Lost Without a Relationship

After a breakup – or any type of relationship loss – you don’t just miss the person’s physical presence. You miss the feeling of having that relationship in your life. You miss the emotional stability, physical security, and familiarity of knowing your boyfriend or best friend was there. You miss him or her, but you […]

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How to Move on From an Ex You Still Love

Your heart is asking “Does he miss me?” but your head knows it’s time learn how to move on from an ex boyfriend. You’re still in love, you miss him and you want him back, but you know this relationship is over. Maybe you even know, deep down, that it’s better that he’s not in […]


3 Steps to Start Living by Faith and Healing Your Broken Heart

When your heart is broken after a break up, living by faith is all you can do. Here’s strength to survive, hope to continue, and help letting go of the past – even when you want to hold on with both hands. These tips on how to live by faith after a break up – […]

3 Steps to Start Living in Faith and Healing Your Broken Heart

7 Ways to Take Care of Yourself Through the Divorce Process

7 Ways to Take Care of Yourself Through the Divorce Process

Divorce proceedings are killer – emotionally, spiritually, socially, financially. These tips on how to take care of yourself through the divorce process will help you avoid overwhelm and burnout. I’m writing this for you…and a reader who asked for help takin care of herself while divorcing her husband. “Three months ago my husband of 27 […]