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How to Love an Emotionally Unavailable Man    Recently updated !

You’re in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man – and you love him too much to leave. You are not alone, even if he doesn’t show his emotions.  In this article, you’ll find 10 tips on how to love a man who isn’t available emotionally. Here’s what a wife wrote on one of my articles […]

Loving Emotionally Unavailable Man

Living With a Man You Wish You Never Married

How to Live With a Husband You Wish You Never Married   Recently updated !

You thought you knew the man you married, but you didn’t find out who your husband really was until after the wedding. How do you live with – and love – a husband you wish you never married? These 101 quick tips will help you fall in love with your husband, fix your marriage, and […]


5 Signs of God’s Blessing on Your Relationship

One of the best ways to see signs of God’s blessing on your relationship is to look at a marriage that wasn’t blessed by God. Step away from your emotions; take hold of the wisdom of the Holy Spirit. Put your desperate (and normal!) yearnings for love aside; learn from the word of God. In […]

How to Know if God Has Blessed Your Relationship

How to Forgive Your Mom for Hurting You Mother's Day

3 Steps to Forgiving Your Mom for Hurting You

What’s the best gift to give your mom on Mother’s Day – or any day of the year? Forgiveness. Learning how to forgive your mother for hurting you will change your relationship with her. Even better, forgiveness will free your heart and soul from the burden of anger, bitterness, and guilt. “Since I was young […]


When You Feel Scared You’ll Never Be Loved

“How to overcome fear” is our theme on She Blossoms this week; today I received two questions about coping when you feel scared you’ll never find love, or feel loved by a man. Here’s what one reader said on my article about wanting to fall in love and get married: “I feel like this was […]

What to Do When You Feel Scared You'll Never find love

5 Tips for Trusting Your Intuition in a New Relationship

5 Tips for Trusting Your Intuition in a New Relationship

Your gut instincts or intuition (Spidey senses) can be a reliable source of information when you’re starting a new relationship. But how do you trust your intuition if you never learned how — or if you trusted your instincts in the past and made a huge mistake? Recently I wrote a blog post called How […]


How to Trust Your Intuition After a Failed Relationship

Maybe you’ve heard advice about “trusting your instincts” when you’re in love, but how do you trust your intuition after a failed relationship? After all, your instincts brought you into a past relationship that fell apart. How do you know if can trust yourself to start a new relationship? More importantly, how do you know how […]

How to Trust Your Intuition After a Failed Relationship

How to Avoid Repeating Your Past Relationship Mistakes

6 Ways to Avoid Repeating Your Past Relationship Mistakes

Staying in a relationship too long, picking the wrong man, and ignoring red flags are three of the most common relationship mistakes — and I’ve made them all! Here’s how to avoid repeating your past mistakes, plus tips for making new, better, healthier ones. Because, let’s face it, we’ll never stop making mistakes. No matter […]


When God Says No to the Desires of Your Heart

I was about 20 when I realized having a baby was the desire of my heart; I was 42 when God said no. That’s 22 years of hoping, praying, and believing He would give me the desires of my heart. Over two decades of wondering, believing, and relying on God’s strength to keep moving forward. […]

When God Says No to Your Heart's Desires

Inspiration to Do What You Really Want to Do

Inspiration to Do What You Really Want to Do

You don’t need advice about your relationship, job, family life, or parenting skills. You already know what you really want and need to do…the problem is finding the motivation, courage, and strength to actually do it. “The purpose of this book is to remind you of what you already know and to kick you in […]