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How to Get Away From an Abusive Husband After 20 Years of Marriage 1

There are no “quick tips” for leaving an abusive husband after 20 years of marriage. But there is good news: you’re still here, and there is hope! You are not alone. I was inspired to write this article by a strong, brave woman who is ready to talk about the abuse her husband has been perpetrating on her and her […]

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Should You Stay Together for the Children? What You Need to Know

These insights and information will help you decide if you should stay together for the children. The effects of divorce on kids can be serious and long-lasting – but so can the impact of growing up in a home with parents who are unhealthy, disconnected, or abusive. Meet the reader who inspired me to write this article; she’s a wife and stay at home mom […]

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How to Help Your Children Through a Painful Divorce

These tips for helping your children cope when you’re getting a divorce will make the transition to your “new normal” much easier. A reader inspired me to write this article; she asked how to help her kids through a separation and divorce initiated by her husband… “About 6 weeks ago my husband, whom I’ve been with for 23 years, told […]

Helping Children Cope With Painful Divorce

How to End Your Toxic Love Affair Now – Before It’s Too Late

Learn what a toxic love affair is, and how to end a relationship that is destroying your self-esteem and making your life miserable. A reader just asked for help ending a love affair that is toxic for both her and her boyfriend, and the timing couldn’t be better! I’m reading Necessary Endings by Dr Henry Cloud; this book can help you […]

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Is Your Marriage Over? 6 Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore 325

How do you know if your marriage is over? These six signs of the end of a relationship will help you see yourself – and your spouse – more clearly. You may not be headed for divorce court, so take heart! Even the healthiest relationships hit rock bottom sometimes. I was inspired to write this article by a reader’s comment. “My husband and […]


How to Know if Your Husband Still Loves You 142

You don’t need a marriage quiz or relationship test to find out if your husband still loves you. Here are the most common signs a marriage is over, plus encouragement for the journey you and your husband are on. “In my work doing marriage coaching, I have noticed that very often the turning point in a marriage is when a couple […]

Is Your Marriage Over Signs Your Husband Doesn’t Love You

How to Know if Divorce is the Best Decision 16

If you’re struggling with the difficult “Should I get a divorce?” question, you may need an unbiased external perspective that isn’t overwhelmed by emotion. Here are 10 signs to help you decide if divorcing your husband is the best choice, inspired by Should I Stay or Should I Go? “It takes a lot of bravery to look right at the truth […]

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