Healthy (But Hard) Decisions


Why You Need to Talk About Your Husband’s Affair – and Who to Tell

Talking about your husband’s affair will help you recover and heal. Here’s how to find someone to talk to – and how to cope with your feelings of shame and embarrassment that your husband was unfaithful. “I have been married for 10 years, my husband and I have two children,” says Carly on How to Forgive Your Husband After an […]

Who to Talk About Your Husband’s Affair

Should You Stay Together for the Children? What You Need to Know

These insights and information will help you decide if you should stay together for the children. The effects of divorce on kids can be serious and long-lasting – but so can the impact of growing up in a home with parents who are unhealthy, disconnected, or abusive. Meet the reader who inspired me to write this article; she’s a wife and stay at home mom […]

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Is It Time to Break Up? How to Know for Sure 2

Even if your relationship is as painful as a paper cut, you may hesitate to end it. These 12 signs it’s time to break up with your boyfriend will help you know for sure what to do. I wrote this article for a reader who “kinda sorta” thinks it’s time to leave her relationship, but is unwilling to sacrifice everything […]

When You Don’t Feel Good Enough for Your Husband

Is Your Marriage Over? 6 Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore 325

How do you know if your marriage is over? These six signs of the end of a relationship will help you see yourself – and your spouse – more clearly. You may not be headed for divorce court, so take heart! Even the healthiest relationships hit rock bottom sometimes. I was inspired to write this article by a reader’s comment. “My husband and […]


How to Decide if You Should Reconcile With Your Husband 46

Here’s what you need to know about getting back together after a separation. Reconciliation is common for many couples who have separated or divorced, but is it a good idea for you? “My husband is desperately trying to reconcile our marriage after we separated,” said Lynda on Emotional Disconnection in Marriage. “I feel he has changed for the better, but I […]

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How to Leave a Man You Love – But Can’t Live With 217

Leaving a man you’ve loved for years isn’t just a physical move out of the house…it’s a painful emotional break. These tips on how to leave a man you love but can’t live with will help you decide if it’s time to say good-bye. Here’s how one woman describes her struggle: “My husband and I were married for 17 years when […]

How to Leave a Man You Love

10 Warning Signs of a Bad Relationship 205

If you ignore these warning signs of bad relationships, you’re setting yourself up for future heartache. It’s hard to accept your relationship isn’t healthy…but the sooner you face the truth, the more quickly you can decide what to do. In a good relationship or marriage, you feel sure of your partner without constantly having to ask for reassurance or approval. You […]

The Man I Love is Marrying Another Woman