Healthy (But Hard) Decisions


7 Ways to Take Care of Yourself Through the Divorce Process 1

Divorce proceedings are killer – emotionally, spiritually, socially, financially. These tips on how to take care of yourself through the divorce process will help you avoid overwhelm and burnout. I’m writing this for you…and a reader who asked for help takin care of herself while divorcing her husband. “Three months ago my husband of 27 years left me for one […]

7 Ways to Take Care of Yourself Through the Divorce Process

What to Do When Your Ex Boyfriend Unfriends You on Facebook 2

When your ex boyfriend unfollows or unfriends you on Facebook, you feel the pain of breaking up all over again. These tips on coping when your ex unfriends or unfollows you on social media will help rebuild your self-confidence and heal from the heartache of a breakup. “Your feelings will pass and life after the breakup will get better!” says […]

How to Cope When Your Ex Unfriends You on Facebook

Why You Need to Talk About Your Husband’s Affair – and Who to Tell

Talking about your husband’s affair will help you recover and heal. Here’s how to find someone to talk to – and how to cope with your feelings of shame and embarrassment that your husband was unfaithful. “I have been married for 10 years, my husband and I have two children,” says Carly on How to Forgive Your Husband After an […]

Who to Talk About Your Husband’s Affair

Should You Stay Together for the Children? What You Need to Know

These insights and information will help you decide if you should stay together for the children. The effects of divorce on kids can be serious and long-lasting – but so can the impact of growing up in a home with parents who are unhealthy, disconnected, or abusive. Meet the reader who inspired me to write this article; she’s a wife and stay at home mom […]

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Is It Time to Break Up? How to Know for Sure 2

Even if your relationship is as painful as a paper cut, you may hesitate to end it. These 12 signs it’s time to break up with your boyfriend will help you know for sure what to do. I wrote this article for a reader who “kinda sorta” thinks it’s time to leave her relationship, but is unwilling to sacrifice everything […]

When You Don’t Feel Good Enough for Your Husband

Is Your Marriage Over? 6 Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore 326

How do you know if your marriage is over? These six signs of the end of a relationship will help you see yourself – and your spouse – more clearly. You may not be headed for divorce court, so take heart! Even the healthiest relationships hit rock bottom sometimes. I was inspired to write this article by a reader’s comment. “My husband and […]

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How to Decide if You Should Reconcile With Your Husband 47

Here’s what you need to know about getting back together after a separation. Reconciliation is common for many couples who have separated or divorced, but is it a good idea for you? “My husband is desperately trying to reconcile our marriage after we separated,” said Lynda on Emotional Disconnection in Marriage. “I feel he has changed for the better, but I […]

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